As I have
made clear, my interview technique when I was 12 was not great (there
is strong argument that it has not improved much since). But my
grandfather, Leslie Keith Ashton O'Toole, did tell me some stories
before I blew it. The following is my favourite.
The
O'Tooles were all great swimmers. Les's dad, John O'Toole, was a
founding member of Balmain Swimming Club and his mum, Mary Marcella ni Hall, a founding member of the Balmain Ladies' Swimming Club.
Younger brother Will was a regular member of the swim team and the
whole family could often be found at Balmain Baths (now Dawn Fraser
Baths) or at one of Sydney's numerous beaches. They were not,
however, to swim in the Harbour as Marcella was concerned about
sharks.
Balmain Baths, from Town and Country Magazine, 4 Jan 1902, p.23. Image from Trove |
When Les
was about fourteen (which would have put this around 1915) he and his
friends would dare each other to do mad things – jumping off moving
trams, climbing things (I think buildings, but I am not quite sure)
and swimming in the Harbour. The Harbour swim was Les's favourite
dare because 1) it was easy and 2) he wasn't allowed to. The routine
was this: “I dare you to swim from X to the ferry wharf”. Les
would strip off and enter the water. His friends would then collect his
clothes and secrete them near the wharf. They knew he had succeeded
because he would meet them later clothed but damp. As he completed each dare, the
swims got longer.
The
O'Tooles were living in 21 Hampton Street at the time, just up the steps from the Balmain Baths and with a
view out towards Cockatoo Island. When Les said “swim in the
Harbour” he meant that side of the Harbour, not round near Circular
Quay or Darling Harbour. The ferry wharf where the clothes were left
was Balmain West Ferry Wharf off Elliott Street. Swims had been from
the Baths round to the ferry wharf and from other spots on the
Birchgrove side.
Les O'Toole, taken around 1914. Photo in private collection |
Les never
worked out how his mother found out. I wonder if she saw him at some
point, either near the Baths or near the wharf. Nevertheless,
Marcella found out. But it is a mark of the woman that she did not
say anything to her son about it.
Impressed
by his swimming prowess, Les's friends set him a big challenge – to
swim from the point near Callan Park under the Iron Cove Bridge to the ferry wharf.
No problem. Les and his friends walked round to the point, Les stripped down and began his swim. His friends
bundled up his clothes and headed for the
wharf. Unbeknownst to all, the friends were being followed.
Les
completed the swim without any trouble. He told me he had seen sharks
from time to time during his Harbour swims, but I don't know if he
saw any that day. Let's just say that sharks became the least of his
worries. He easily reached the wharf and waited till the coast was clear. Then he made his way
to the place where his clothes were usually stashed.
Nothing.
He looked
about for them.
Still
nothing.
He started to search frantically, all the while trying to stay out of sight. This
was after all 1915 in built-up Balmain and he was stark naked.
Still
nothing.
So began
a furtive and seemingly endless trip home, through back streets and
pan man's alleys. Most toilets were pan toilets outside. The pans needed regular
emptying and the pan men needed access, so Sydney had an extensive network of alleys. If you go to areas like Balmain, Newtown and Redfern you can still see them. Little lanes about 3 feet wide running behind yards or between buildings. So there was Les, ducking under cover, scooting down alleys and making a break for it when necessary if the
coast was clear. It's about 500m from the wharf to Hampton Street as the crow flies, but a 14
year old boy, clothed or naked, isn't able travel as the crow flies. Les couldn't say how long
it took, except to say that he felt like he would never get there.
Finally
he reached 21 Hampton Street, sneaking into the yard. He crept into the house and
into his room which he shared with his younger brothers.
There,
neatly laid out on his bed were his clothes.
Realising
the gig was up, Les quietly dressed and went out to the kitchen to
eat his tea. All Marcella said was “How was your afternoon?”
When he
told his friends the next day they laughed like drains.
But Les
never swam in the Harbour again.
Told to
Megan Hitchens ni Ellem sometime in March 1980
Such self control on Marcella's part and what a case of learning by the consequences. I like it!
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ReplyDeleteMy grandfather was still rather in awe of his mother's actions 65 years later, although by that time he could laugh about it.
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